FAILURE- What you need to know
FAILURE IS A PROCESS
The wise man said and I grabbed; "If you fail to plan, you're planning to fail", meanwhile there are a lot of "Master Planners" who have failed even after planning, therefore I say - even if you don't fail to plan, if your plans are faulty, you're planning to fail.
Let's take a tour to the United State of NOT America but Wikipedia, we have failure defined as the state, that condition of not meeting a desirable, targeted, intended, aimed or set goals. Bunch of English words you said? Let's go further.
I have been about this topic, I must confess it is not as easy as I thought earlier. Well, from what we got in Wiki's nation above, failure is said to be when you don't (when you have FAILED to) meet up with a desirable objective and I agree with the used words along the definition. Coined from my previous article - "Figuring It Out", I said "Success is not a destination, success is a journey", hence I affirm to you that just exactly is failure. Failure is something that will continue to happen to man as long as he strives for success. Mind you, the real and the most destructive failure happens when one stops being, then it can be said that such person failed, else you always try again. Remember this part of the PSquare's song titled E NO EASY? it goes thus; "when you fall you go stand up again, then you try am again, again and again and again..."which means the chain ends only when life is lost, until the day you die you cannot be tagged a failure. Add that to your mentality before we continue.
A friend of mine will say "if I am doing something and I am not facing any challenge, I will quit because it means it is not worth it". I somehow agree with him of course.
A lot of time, we refuse to see that part where failure brings a lesson to us, we only look at the pain, people's mockery and so on. We often forget that the difficulties make the game interesting. We are humans, emotional! Yes we feel sad when nature calls for it, but when you do, try to see beyond it. There is this Yoruba adage "when the eyes cry, they still see" you are sad because you missed it, the fall does not really matter, just make sure you pick something up every time you fall.
Let only you be able to determine convincingly whether you've failed or not, never let what people say get you off the track, they are meant to talk, see beyond every critics!
A lot of people suppose failure is avoidable, so they wallow in their today and because of that, they face tomorrow unprepared. I am certain you don't want to be a friend of today and an enemy of tomorrow. Failure just like death is inevitable provided you keep typing new things, as long as you want to succeed, failure, is a factor to be put into consideration. I will suggest you become more pessimistic along your optimism.
Eloise Ristard emphasizes that "when we give ourselves permission to fail, we at the same time give ourselves permission to excel" so do not see failure as something you should rebuke, if you want to succeed.
Are you trying something and it is not working out and you think you have failed? No, don't judge failure by what you did that didn't work out, what actually makes you a failure is when you quit what you really want because you failed, my philosophy of life is "if I am doing something and it is not working out, it means I need a new plan, different approach is always a hope for a different answer, if I quit just because it is not working out then I am a failure because that is when it is assured that I cant meet the targeted goals" - Razaq
Failure is a process, don't rebuke it, it will guide you on the success journey if only you can open your eyes and see. My dear get prepared for failure in order to succeed.
Razaq Mosunmola Rokibat.
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The wise man said and I grabbed; "If you fail to plan, you're planning to fail", meanwhile there are a lot of "Master Planners" who have failed even after planning, therefore I say - even if you don't fail to plan, if your plans are faulty, you're planning to fail.
Let's take a tour to the United State of NOT America but Wikipedia, we have failure defined as the state, that condition of not meeting a desirable, targeted, intended, aimed or set goals. Bunch of English words you said? Let's go further.
I have been about this topic, I must confess it is not as easy as I thought earlier. Well, from what we got in Wiki's nation above, failure is said to be when you don't (when you have FAILED to) meet up with a desirable objective and I agree with the used words along the definition. Coined from my previous article - "Figuring It Out", I said "Success is not a destination, success is a journey", hence I affirm to you that just exactly is failure. Failure is something that will continue to happen to man as long as he strives for success. Mind you, the real and the most destructive failure happens when one stops being, then it can be said that such person failed, else you always try again. Remember this part of the PSquare's song titled E NO EASY? it goes thus; "when you fall you go stand up again, then you try am again, again and again and again..."which means the chain ends only when life is lost, until the day you die you cannot be tagged a failure. Add that to your mentality before we continue.
A friend of mine will say "if I am doing something and I am not facing any challenge, I will quit because it means it is not worth it". I somehow agree with him of course.
A lot of time, we refuse to see that part where failure brings a lesson to us, we only look at the pain, people's mockery and so on. We often forget that the difficulties make the game interesting. We are humans, emotional! Yes we feel sad when nature calls for it, but when you do, try to see beyond it. There is this Yoruba adage "when the eyes cry, they still see" you are sad because you missed it, the fall does not really matter, just make sure you pick something up every time you fall.
Let only you be able to determine convincingly whether you've failed or not, never let what people say get you off the track, they are meant to talk, see beyond every critics!
A lot of people suppose failure is avoidable, so they wallow in their today and because of that, they face tomorrow unprepared. I am certain you don't want to be a friend of today and an enemy of tomorrow. Failure just like death is inevitable provided you keep typing new things, as long as you want to succeed, failure, is a factor to be put into consideration. I will suggest you become more pessimistic along your optimism.
Eloise Ristard emphasizes that "when we give ourselves permission to fail, we at the same time give ourselves permission to excel" so do not see failure as something you should rebuke, if you want to succeed.
Are you trying something and it is not working out and you think you have failed? No, don't judge failure by what you did that didn't work out, what actually makes you a failure is when you quit what you really want because you failed, my philosophy of life is "if I am doing something and it is not working out, it means I need a new plan, different approach is always a hope for a different answer, if I quit just because it is not working out then I am a failure because that is when it is assured that I cant meet the targeted goals" - Razaq
Failure is a process, don't rebuke it, it will guide you on the success journey if only you can open your eyes and see. My dear get prepared for failure in order to succeed.
Razaq Mosunmola Rokibat.
Please feel free to share
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